tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post2469834664296949102..comments2024-03-08T20:37:18.218+05:30Comments on JEETE RAHO: The Teens' Tribulations--All Facts,No FictionUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-3422518059725156892015-07-01T17:16:48.839+05:302015-07-01T17:16:48.839+05:30Ankita sometimes the kids are too lazy for their o...Ankita sometimes the kids are too lazy for their own good and parents have to egg them on.But it should not be mixed with their own ambitions.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-8888231078407687522015-07-01T12:44:39.693+05:302015-07-01T12:44:39.693+05:30I do not understand the logic of giving this extr...I do not understand the logic of giving this extreme stress to kids.I feel bad for kids with such maniac parents. Ankita https://www.blogger.com/profile/08423815874935620837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-85151350270876662652015-06-30T17:17:00.075+05:302015-06-30T17:17:00.075+05:30By pushing our kids to achieve the impossible we o...By pushing our kids to achieve the impossible we often push them too far-sad.<br />Maniparna thanks for coming over.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-53795656619300873352015-06-30T11:32:21.213+05:302015-06-30T11:32:21.213+05:30These days I see a tendency in parents to make the...These days I see a tendency in parents to make their child an IITian. Gone are those prestigious days of doctors and engineers; now we can find one in every family. So, the latest trend is IIT. Surprisingly, every parent thinks his child as a genius and, therefore, pushes the poor soul to fulfill those dreams which they themselves failed to<br />attain. A sad state of affairs indeed. Every child Maniparnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16109166826609932168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-43900967211974208572015-06-29T08:10:11.041+05:302015-06-29T08:10:11.041+05:30You are right Alok,the stress is too much.
The ch...You are right Alok,the stress is too much.<br /><br />The children too,want to live a cushy life,they are not satisfied with small packages even if they lack the caliber.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-86303273011518423322015-06-28T17:57:00.457+05:302015-06-28T17:57:00.457+05:30There is too much stress these days on kids, prima...There is too much stress these days on kids, primarily because our own expectations have gone up for our wards. Why not be realistic and see what they can achieve realistically.<br /><br />I know of a person who just wanted his daughter to become a doctor and she never was able to, because she didn't have that kind of caliber.<br />The result is frustration and depression in the poor kid. So Alok singhalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13464535666153172726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-26651069555953444912015-06-26T17:02:12.356+05:302015-06-26T17:02:12.356+05:30Yes it is very sad,but no danger of you becoming s...Yes it is very sad,but no danger of you becoming such a parent.<br />Love n hugs.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-80564181705277462252015-06-26T10:33:34.042+05:302015-06-26T10:33:34.042+05:30It makes me really sad, Indu, when I read about su...It makes me really sad, Indu, when I read about such incidents. I want to go and shake the parents and make them see the mirror. The only lesson I take from this is to talk to my boys more and make sure that I don't become one of these parents.Rachnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02275266551382931603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-39960499761825532882015-06-24T18:51:52.218+05:302015-06-24T18:51:52.218+05:30AH,you have put it very neatly Renu.
Lots of love....AH,you have put it very neatly Renu.<br />Lots of love.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-66017294045626929722015-06-24T16:56:21.218+05:302015-06-24T16:56:21.218+05:30Absolutely,communication is of prime importance.Absolutely,communication is of prime importance.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-13465035750498713132015-06-24T16:54:06.920+05:302015-06-24T16:54:06.920+05:30Looks like parents have become Shylock to extract ...Looks like parents have become Shylock to extract their pound of flesh when it comes to their children's life.Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-21931004593531609492015-06-24T07:17:14.816+05:302015-06-24T07:17:14.816+05:30@jaish i think it is the prestige attached to thes...@jaish i think it is the prestige attached to these institutions,plus the hope of getting well paid jobs which does it.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-44193421439965105872015-06-24T07:14:56.360+05:302015-06-24T07:14:56.360+05:30Been through this blog rohan-thanks.Been through this blog rohan-thanks.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-23474161825835902092015-06-23T20:09:46.665+05:302015-06-23T20:09:46.665+05:30I think the root cause is the education system and...I think the root cause is the education system and the way its linked to job security and assurance for pay...Some institutes and courses are considered gateways to a successful life and hence other vistas apt for ones capabilities are never explored...sad!Jayashree Srivatsanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07187741357853447742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-12079918004637159602015-06-23T18:44:08.461+05:302015-06-23T18:44:08.461+05:30you may check below blog
https://dilawarrajput.wo...you may check below blog<br /><br />https://dilawarrajput.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/concern-with-jee-merit-etc-in-iits/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-38207326743603071842015-06-23T17:38:36.567+05:302015-06-23T17:38:36.567+05:30Well said Suresh.Money and status is all that coun...Well said Suresh.Money and status is all that counts.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-9388605794436040982015-06-23T17:36:43.423+05:302015-06-23T17:36:43.423+05:30Yes parental pressure can be very taxing for a chi...Yes parental pressure can be very taxing for a child.It is all about vicarious satisfaction on their part.<br />Thanks for coming over.<br />Love n hugs.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-25719571631937353602015-06-23T17:31:52.427+05:302015-06-23T17:31:52.427+05:30Very eminent suggestions here Zephyr--who better t...Very eminent suggestions here Zephyr--who better than you to do so?<br />I did not know about these ability sections.<br />Talking of education,see how scoring has leaped up to touch 100%--even in English?The teachers and the state boards play safe--give high marks and polish their reputations.Our education system is in shambles.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-26255146620789643142015-06-23T15:29:12.409+05:302015-06-23T15:29:12.409+05:30And what a sad commentary too on the idea we have ...And what a sad commentary too on the idea we have about education. From being a process of acquiring knowledge it had come down to a process of acquiring money and status. Truly human beings can bring down the highest of things to the dirt.C Sureshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07447144019185253116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-76238902276216895302015-06-23T12:11:19.029+05:302015-06-23T12:11:19.029+05:30Right you are Indu ji ( like always )
Parent pre...Right you are Indu ji ( like always ) <br /><br />Parent pressure is the biggest hurdle in a childs growth ---because apart from other things the child has to face his own conscience of not fulfilling his parents wishes and dreams --because parents start emotional blackmailing from very early stage of life and sort of brain wash the child into believing that he has to repay the parents love --Rajni Sinhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08535246989455283777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-16292934597492760712015-06-23T08:56:29.502+05:302015-06-23T08:56:29.502+05:30Parents can indeed kill a child literally and figu...Parents can indeed kill a child literally and figuratively. Alas, as long as money and fame are seen as the yardsticks of success, this will continue. Schools that worry about their image and rank are even more to blame for this sorry state of affairs.<br /><br />Career guidance, aptitude tests and EQ tests should be made compulsory in schools -- at least in the elite ones. But there too, there Zephyrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03900695572499869739noreply@blogger.com