tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post3797430157056107670..comments2024-03-08T20:37:18.218+05:30Comments on JEETE RAHO: Perils of perfectionismUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-8983916087755812572012-11-15T18:25:05.666+05:302012-11-15T18:25:05.666+05:30Diwakar welcome to jeeteraho.I hope there are few ...Diwakar welcome to jeeteraho.I hope there are few such persons who do not give a margin of error to others.Please keep visiting.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-45345103039877973592012-11-15T16:01:30.249+05:302012-11-15T16:01:30.249+05:30Great post Indu. I somehow feel that one cannot de...Great post Indu. I somehow feel that one cannot desire to be follow this in all walks of life. For example, one might try to be perfect at his job, like Amir Khan; one might try to be perfect at something else. I wonder if a guy like Anil exists at all!Diwakar Narayanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07935804329101619790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-6964454209043304882012-11-15T11:40:36.298+05:302012-11-15T11:40:36.298+05:30And how i love your comments!!!!!!!!!!!!!And how i love your comments!!!!!!!!!!!!!indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-67566497328522582062012-11-15T09:59:28.219+05:302012-11-15T09:59:28.219+05:30Yet another masterpiece Indu! Loved it to perfecti...Yet another masterpiece Indu! Loved it to perfection:):)AmitAaghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02691653942870794293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-74157410793678685642012-11-15T08:06:17.482+05:302012-11-15T08:06:17.482+05:30Thanks for your input-your comparison is very suit...Thanks for your input-your comparison is very suitable.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-46000115445989314542012-11-14T20:14:51.799+05:302012-11-14T20:14:51.799+05:30In J D Salinger's novel, The Catcher in the Ry...In J D Salinger's novel, The Catcher in the Rye, a teacher tells the 16-year old protagonist that the latter would end up as a person who would find fault with people for their spelling mistakes and grammatical errors. Because Holden wants perfection! I have seen many perfectionists with just that attitude: people who miss the wood for the trees.Tomichan Matheikalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05037872309096060126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-27070774137669352652012-11-14T18:56:52.243+05:302012-11-14T18:56:52.243+05:30Very true Deepak.Very true Deepak.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-25617768808886531842012-11-14T18:56:02.825+05:302012-11-14T18:56:02.825+05:30No doubt your kind of perfectionism is the way to ...No doubt your kind of perfectionism is the way to be.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-15103011371874877442012-11-14T09:59:31.039+05:302012-11-14T09:59:31.039+05:30Extremism of any sort is bad for health :)Extremism of any sort is bad for health :)magiceyehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17848851692951192508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-90075899468233689192012-11-14T08:17:03.400+05:302012-11-14T08:17:03.400+05:30Ah! Indu! I am a perfectionist in my own way. The ...Ah! Indu! I am a perfectionist in my own way. The thing is I do not want everything to be perfect. My perfectionism is limited to doing the best possible job when someone else has reason to expect it - as in my job (when I was working), in a meal when I have invited someone home etc. I do not start the day with a perfect toothbrush brushing perfect teeth and move from thereon :) I hope that is C Sureshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07447144019185253116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-50855193654966870932012-02-01T16:31:21.211+05:302012-02-01T16:31:21.211+05:30very true....thanx for visiting.very true....thanx for visiting.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-31522645620648004732012-02-01T10:18:40.949+05:302012-02-01T10:18:40.949+05:30Being a perfectionist has its won pros and cons.
W...Being a perfectionist has its won pros and cons.<br />Well it may be good but at times it makes you distant from the people you ought to be with.vinayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02483120636245740181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-74215162908067880372012-01-31T17:37:42.135+05:302012-01-31T17:37:42.135+05:30Yes Elvira we humans cant be perfect but some have...Yes Elvira we humans cant be perfect but some have this misconception which is not good for them or those around them.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-86044153545555317032012-01-31T17:24:43.817+05:302012-01-31T17:24:43.817+05:30Nothing perfect fits so better in the lives we liv...Nothing perfect fits so better in the lives we live. If there is someone like Anil who is trying to make everything look perfect around them, then no one would ever get to learn something new. We are made perfect, but we are not born perfect, so we try to make things better. But we can never be perfect no matter how hard we try.Elvirahhttp://www.rachelspassion.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-3811123735637460642012-01-26T19:35:04.889+05:302012-01-26T19:35:04.889+05:30may u both live happily ever after------what i des...may u both live happily ever after------what i described was an extreme case----otherwise so many of us do take pride in doing a job to the best of our ability....but when we base our acceptance of others on this attribute ,then we become a pain in -u know where.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-68156741518382648242012-01-26T19:04:41.238+05:302012-01-26T19:04:41.238+05:30I am married to a perfectionist and reality is not...I am married to a perfectionist and reality is not this grim :)Purbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06345755953291104000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-43493815387985076472012-01-23T17:12:50.096+05:302012-01-23T17:12:50.096+05:30u have made a valid point there...our expectations...u have made a valid point there...our expectations largely depend upon our own relation to the person...but just being attentive & careful does not qualify for perfectionism,no what people may say.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-33036369851548422262012-01-22T21:40:44.502+05:302012-01-22T21:40:44.502+05:30There are sometimes thin lines of boundaries depen...There are sometimes thin lines of boundaries depending upon the circumstances. Some times if you are attentive and careful, they call you perfectionist .. as a client receiving the service, I would look at it differently than as a spouse or a child who is waiting for attention at home ..Sunil Deepakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05781674474022699458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-31771884948502480652012-01-19T14:13:25.774+05:302012-01-19T14:13:25.774+05:30Point taken...thanx for visiting!Point taken...thanx for visiting!indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-40620593464337020042012-01-19T09:23:50.049+05:302012-01-19T09:23:50.049+05:30I hate being perfect. For me, if you are perfect, ...I hate being perfect. For me, if you are perfect, there is no scope of improvement. Also, I love to be myself and human...Thankfully, people around me are sane...Saru Singhalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860642404643756746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-69550088032273413052012-01-17T21:11:43.919+05:302012-01-17T21:11:43.919+05:30I completely agree with you.And since i AM an elde...I completely agree with you.And since i AM an elderly mother-in-law (or is it monster-in-law)i take care to avoid this.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-969263177782320532012-01-17T20:50:34.151+05:302012-01-17T20:50:34.151+05:30i just thanked my stars that i am not married to a...i just thanked my stars that i am not married to a character like Anil!<br />i do like people who give their best shot in everything they do but there has to be a certain liveliness too. Anil sounds like a military commander and to have someone like that at home especially an elderly or head of the house kind of person is quite scary for me<br />i would rather be a little imperfect than too Sujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.com