tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post4073619279723074699..comments2024-03-24T10:31:21.513+05:30Comments on JEETE RAHO: Using #Memories to Heal HurtsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-17935643061546898062013-04-25T11:42:21.456+05:302013-04-25T11:42:21.456+05:30You described it very well Panchali--as always!
A...You described it very well Panchali--as always!<br /><br />And yes,i was wondering where you were.<br />Thanks for your heartening words--they add to my happiness quotient.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-46592758138664208322013-04-24T22:36:08.520+05:302013-04-24T22:36:08.520+05:30I can add that trick to my maneuver. I can add that trick to my maneuver. Saru Singhalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860642404643756746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-10175775939439236682013-04-24T22:18:25.369+05:302013-04-24T22:18:25.369+05:30How true, Indu!
When we are angry... the torrent ...How true, Indu! <br />When we are angry... the torrent of inner emotions that whirls inside us focuses our attention on the source of our irritation. It becomes difficult to think about anything else. But, next time on wards, I'll think of a happy memory and smile. <br />Great article. Enjoyed reading, Indu. I was traveling hence, am late. :((Panchalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08832164041967778122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-41224828525876045112013-04-23T17:41:21.037+05:302013-04-23T17:41:21.037+05:30Yes i too do that to appease him,but if i am in a ...Yes i too do that to appease him,but if i am in a rebellious mood then i cook my own favorite dishes.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-66780717694627191062013-04-23T17:28:33.943+05:302013-04-23T17:28:33.943+05:30It is usual for emotions to take over during a fig...It is usual for emotions to take over during a fight but a partner who forgets & smiles after that is worth his weight in gold!!!indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-17946409253109388322013-04-23T17:05:07.429+05:302013-04-23T17:05:07.429+05:30Thank God for the call from your friend. You are r...Thank God for the call from your friend. You are right, we pass judgement too soon, one bad act and everything goes down the drain. You know I am very bad wife, I never say sorry even if I am wrong, I just cook whatever my husband likes. He comes home, sees some pastry, cake or favorite indian dish and we are back to normal. But now he understands cooking/baking without occasion is my way of Saru Singhalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860642404643756746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-83282862842455844892013-04-23T11:33:49.969+05:302013-04-23T11:33:49.969+05:30Thank you Chowla jee!Thank you Chowla jee!indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-37757336512038576482013-04-23T00:35:12.133+05:302013-04-23T00:35:12.133+05:30I think like you did, many times; rather every tim...I think like you did, many times; rather every time we have a fight. I brood, sulk and hold on the grudge for so long. Irony is that 'S' who is the reason and cause of the whole thing forgets it so soon and smiles back. I wish I was easy on him. :) Next time on wards, I will keep reminding myself of all the good times we had. A very warm post that works as a reminder. :) I loved the lastFound In Folsomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-85283382038858107472013-04-22T18:45:28.530+05:302013-04-22T18:45:28.530+05:30Enjoy them.There are those who live every moment o...Enjoy them.There are those who live every moment of life with memoriesBK Chowla,https://www.blogger.com/profile/03869011550287421537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-5434849189004983112013-04-21T14:04:22.297+05:302013-04-21T14:04:22.297+05:30Deepak thanks a lot for your input & praise.I ...Deepak thanks a lot for your input & praise.I am glad you liked the story!indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-50042842289199845732013-04-21T11:55:51.681+05:302013-04-21T11:55:51.681+05:30Hey Indu. You presented the lesson through a very ...Hey Indu. You presented the lesson through a very interesting story.<br />It is true indeed that we tend to jump to hasty conclusion without giving considerable thought to it. Concept of cognitive economy stands so true here. But cognitive economy is not always the best way to go. We need to spend some thoughts to get a clearer and more rational interpretation. <br /><br />Good one dear. Keep Deepak Kripalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11427901879844057618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-5198407462077449792013-04-21T10:02:30.382+05:302013-04-21T10:02:30.382+05:30Right as always Jaish!!!!!!Right as always Jaish!!!!!!indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-2731801093435195292013-04-20T20:49:42.470+05:302013-04-20T20:49:42.470+05:30Lovely post Indu and yes we do tend to get into th...Lovely post Indu and yes we do tend to get into those foul moods and if there is self pity they would be worse :) memories can uplift you or haunt you . It's upto our own selves to manage them rt ? Jayashree Srivatsanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07187741357853447742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-84197752957877059632013-04-20T07:02:55.211+05:302013-04-20T07:02:55.211+05:30Well said Suresh!Well said Suresh!indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-79226864135224630512013-04-19T21:46:46.115+05:302013-04-19T21:46:46.115+05:30That is also the key to remaining happy, Indu - ma...That is also the key to remaining happy, Indu - managing memories. We can concentrate on all the negative incidents of life and perpetuate the unhappiness or we can relive the happy moments and perpetuate the joy in our minds.C Sureshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07447144019185253116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-60153283848266047042013-04-19T19:35:56.044+05:302013-04-19T19:35:56.044+05:30It is very sad but old age really intensifies ever...It is very sad but old age really intensifies every set- back,whether it be ill-health,penury or loneliness.<br />As you so rightly pointed out it requires a lot of strength to get out of that mode but strength is what is lacking at that stage.<br />Thank you Rajni for this deep insight.<br />Love n Hugs.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-69696264676165973862013-04-19T19:26:56.429+05:302013-04-19T19:26:56.429+05:30Ranjana thanks a lot for the appreciation---glad y...Ranjana thanks a lot for the appreciation---glad you liked it.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-13357032748183182412013-04-19T13:34:10.544+05:302013-04-19T13:34:10.544+05:30A very true to facts post Indu ji
but like you h...A very true to facts post Indu ji <br /><br />but like you have said its the attitude ---some people see negative even in memories --and push themselves further into depression---specially the elderly --its takes a lot of strength to pull themselves up and see the positive <br /><br />"Memories warm you up from the inside.But they also tear you apart."---very tue<br />life is big Rajni Sinhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08535246989455283777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-7018088891086755652013-04-19T10:35:58.501+05:302013-04-19T10:35:58.501+05:30Even I do the same when I'm angry. :(. I shoul...Even I do the same when I'm angry. :(. I should control, good thing I started practicing to be calm. Thanks for the nice post Indu.Ranjana's craft bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09158034917470295411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-78215513237525184392013-04-19T07:08:49.764+05:302013-04-19T07:08:49.764+05:30Ajnabi it is true that anger can spoil many scenes...Ajnabi it is true that anger can spoil many scenes,take care.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-44355518733212672452013-04-19T07:07:18.615+05:302013-04-19T07:07:18.615+05:30Very true jahid,thanks.Very true jahid,thanks.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-14406189107076014792013-04-19T02:01:23.245+05:302013-04-19T02:01:23.245+05:30Hmm nyc post. Very true.. In anger.. We decide eve...Hmm nyc post. Very true.. In anger.. We decide everything wrong.. About life or any person... Lifeor person may be diffrent... !!!... Keep writing.. It is worthwhile fro person like me who is short temper.. !!! Do visit my blog thanksAJNABIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12284186593627420714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-1314526066249848082013-04-19T00:23:42.115+05:302013-04-19T00:23:42.115+05:30I think memories should only be cherished, as we d...I think memories should only be cherished, as we don't have any time machine to go back and change it :)<br /><br />Regards,<br />Jahid<br /><a href="http://jahidakhtar.blogspot.in/" rel="nofollow"><i>Flashbacks</i></a> jahidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06097607781740943913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-31474710396811181542013-04-18T19:13:24.166+05:302013-04-18T19:13:24.166+05:30Maliny i am very pleased that you liked the post,t...Maliny i am very pleased that you liked the post,thanks a ton!!indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-23355747955467749652013-04-18T19:12:12.279+05:302013-04-18T19:12:12.279+05:30Thanks for this princess.Thanks for this princess.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.com