tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post4554028948961025682..comments2024-03-24T10:31:21.513+05:30Comments on JEETE RAHO: To TogethernessUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-60860513062593738852014-12-05T10:01:02.118+05:302014-12-05T10:01:02.118+05:30You puzzled me with the change in your name Karthi...You puzzled me with the change in your name Karthik :(.<br />Made my day,thanks.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-18191033487298369132014-12-05T06:22:50.080+05:302014-12-05T06:22:50.080+05:30Good one. Excellent points.Good one. Excellent points.T F Carthickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12417105427125776020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-20761890446331402062014-11-26T21:22:55.887+05:302014-11-26T21:22:55.887+05:30Very true Rachna introspection and communication a...Very true Rachna introspection and communication are vital.<br />I am truly glad you resonate with this--we noticed this earlier too.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-58306545030697013462014-11-26T21:20:18.219+05:302014-11-26T21:20:18.219+05:30Purba your concurrence means a lot to me-thank you...Purba your concurrence means a lot to me-thank you for this.<br />Yes ego upsets many relationships.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-74945150241913056962014-11-26T13:33:58.446+05:302014-11-26T13:33:58.446+05:30Indu, bang on. I agree with every point. While adj...Indu, bang on. I agree with every point. While adjustment is most important for both the partners, introspection every now and then is much needed. Also communicate and don't expect the other to be a mind reader. Loved the post! Very similar to what I feel.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-70926725790435278832014-11-26T11:09:16.833+05:302014-11-26T11:09:16.833+05:30Very early in our marriage, we had decided not to ...Very early in our marriage, we had decided not to drag the past in our arguments. Of course, ego is hard to let go of. But accepting that you might have been in the wrong always helps.<br /><br />Lovely read, Indu.Purbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06345755953291104000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-63427996840151854472014-11-24T16:38:03.863+05:302014-11-24T16:38:03.863+05:30You make a valid point.When only one person adjust...You make a valid point.When only one person adjusts individuality is lost---sad,peace comes at a price.<br />Thank you Ranjana.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-8146193567193314452014-11-24T11:45:37.720+05:302014-11-24T11:45:37.720+05:30True Indu.But some adjustments can be to certain e...True Indu.But some adjustments can be to certain extent. I have seen in many couples only partner adjust a lot. Another will be very stubborn. In this course of adjustment many loose their individuality, But understanding each other helps a lot. I have seen many wonderful couples with great understanding. Good article. Ranjana's craft bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09158034917470295411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-91952556247995757182014-11-23T07:09:08.571+05:302014-11-23T07:09:08.571+05:30Kp welcome to jeeteraho--that's it-in a nutshe...Kp welcome to jeeteraho--that's it-in a nutshell.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-15737624045348006982014-11-22T21:45:39.289+05:302014-11-22T21:45:39.289+05:30A good article.For marriages to succeed there shou...A good article.For marriages to succeed there should be understanding,mutual trust,a willingness to please each other and certain amount of tolerance.There should be an effort to make it work in happy circumstances.KParthasarathihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02189924874350906456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-32731486915041221302014-11-22T18:49:09.232+05:302014-11-22T18:49:09.232+05:30Be it a love marriage or an arranged marriage..wha...Be it a love marriage or an arranged marriage..what is essential is understanding between the two and each one has to compromise ,if one wants the marriage to remain at peace. BK Chowla,https://www.blogger.com/profile/03869011550287421537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-84036413072057812752014-11-22T18:33:09.953+05:302014-11-22T18:33:09.953+05:30Renu all this has resulted from a refusal to compr...Renu all this has resulted from a refusal to compromise.If one spouse reveals a hidden vice then i would say that it was a gamble gone wrong or plain deceit;but just refusing to meet each other half way is adamant self destruction.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-13566862898396860742014-11-22T17:36:36.952+05:302014-11-22T17:36:36.952+05:30marriages are really very complex..I see a couple ...marriages are really very complex..I see a couple who had love marriage, but they are constantly in arguement becuase wife is a spendthrift..<br />Then there is this couple where husband has a touring job, and whenevr he goes out, wife throws a tantrum, ...or asks him to change the dates...<br />Then there was this girl who wouldnt lift a finger in the house inspite og being a housewife..<br />Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-70378098035557989182014-11-22T16:51:39.383+05:302014-11-22T16:51:39.383+05:30Very true Rajni,if one of the two is not intereste...Very true Rajni,if one of the two is not interested then no amount of sacrifice can save it.Just consider some marriages of yore---if the husband was oppressive the wife meekly towed the line;but it was slavery,not a partnership.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-14594905003629255902014-11-22T14:51:37.072+05:302014-11-22T14:51:37.072+05:30Indu ji
Personally I think A marriage will klick...Indu ji <br /><br />Personally I think A marriage will klick if the two partners want it to --and it won't if even one is not interested ---no amount of love and sacrifice and adjustment will ever work if the will to survive doesnot exist --and no amount of indifference will destroy if there is the will to survive <br /><br />Idon't know how to put it but mariage is a very complex and Rajni Sinhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08535246989455283777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-6865498050699927982014-11-22T14:35:04.127+05:302014-11-22T14:35:04.127+05:30Rohan i totally agree with you on discipline and i...Rohan i totally agree with you on discipline and i would like to add courtesy and manners too.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-39051249992509008152014-11-22T14:33:26.485+05:302014-11-22T14:33:26.485+05:30Thanks for dropping this link Suresh,it was a good...Thanks for dropping this link Suresh,it was a good read--very illuminating.<br /><br />And your first comment is bang on !!!!indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-27407662621517101602014-11-22T13:16:16.014+05:302014-11-22T13:16:16.014+05:30we need not go into survey's or research how c...we need not go into survey's or research how contemporary society is acting.there is simple basic thing that's changing whole behavior of society.it happens at school level,these days most of techno schools and coaching centres teach kids how to compete and how to speak fluent english and they tell " you don't need discipline to be successful". discipline is most important Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-26887592773416502662014-11-22T10:59:51.125+05:302014-11-22T10:59:51.125+05:30I normally do not cross-link my posts in comments ...I normally do not cross-link my posts in comments Indu but I think this one is apt in this context.<br /><br />http://jambudweepam.blogspot.in/2012/08/agony-aunt.htmlC Sureshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07447144019185253116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-91494064069267261802014-11-22T09:50:21.306+05:302014-11-22T09:50:21.306+05:30You said it, Indu! It does not even require rose-c...You said it, Indu! It does not even require rose-colored spectacles in the wooing phase. There is a VAST difference between meeting a person and living with her. Things like what programs you watch on TV to how you use the bathroom; to when you want space and when you want to converse; to who makes the coffee to who does the dishes - all of them become known ONLY when you become a couple. Unless C Sureshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07447144019185253116noreply@blogger.com