tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post4931048829216412073..comments2024-03-24T10:31:21.513+05:30Comments on JEETE RAHO: Competition--Merits And Demerits.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-79638201691802907642014-09-07T18:49:18.146+05:302014-09-07T18:49:18.146+05:30You belittle yourself but you have achieved A LOT ...You belittle yourself but you have achieved A LOT Karthik.<br />Me,i was at the opposite end--there was no pressure on me to do the best i can,but on complaints-my parents were genial folks.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-40988742011484778892014-09-07T16:26:35.603+05:302014-09-07T16:26:35.603+05:30I know - been through that. I have lived most of m...I know - been through that. I have lived most of my childhood trying to win the approval of my parents, trying to be top the class but falling short of the mark most of the time. The spirit is so ingrained in me that I burn myself trying to achieve something. Then the stress created the opposing surge of rebellion that makes me take random decisions that destroy everything I have worked for and T F Carthickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12417105427125776020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-74637078555427460942014-09-01T08:18:10.597+05:302014-09-01T08:18:10.597+05:30I agree with you Purba.Today parents' prioriti...I agree with you Purba.Today parents' priorities have changed drastically :(.<br />Have a nice day,or is it a good night?indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-20096406852727363582014-09-01T04:21:59.330+05:302014-09-01T04:21:59.330+05:30Push your child too hard and you end up depriving ...Push your child too hard and you end up depriving her of a happy childhood. Contentment and not success is the key to happiness.<br /><br />I think we should all teach our children to be kind and understanding. Purbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06345755953291104000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-72785383212188882772014-08-30T11:09:07.071+05:302014-08-30T11:09:07.071+05:30Candid comment Richa !ThanxCandid comment Richa !Thanxindu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-12601502734579334702014-08-30T11:08:27.177+05:302014-08-30T11:08:27.177+05:30That's true Suresh.When we enjoy what we are d...That's true Suresh.When we enjoy what we are doing then we do want to excel in it.<br />Regarding your last line---enjoy! It is not everybody who can just chill out and relax :))indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-35559546554854317492014-08-29T23:57:26.698+05:302014-08-29T23:57:26.698+05:30We have all gone past the spirit of participation ...We have all gone past the spirit of participation unfortunately. It is a race and we are all rats in it..<br /><br /><a href="http://subzeroricha.com/" rel="nofollow"> Richa</a>Richa Singhhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18147592329627851095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-35652729359223179442014-08-28T21:53:15.686+05:302014-08-28T21:53:15.686+05:30Aspiring to be the best that we can be in the area...Aspiring to be the best that we can be in the areas that we want to do the best we can is the only way I have seen whereby you harness both the powers of competitiveness and do away with the ill-effects. Thankfully, I found that out pretty early in life; unfortunately, I also found that, when I left out impressing other people as a motivating factor, there was precious little that was left that IC Sureshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07447144019185253116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-64305358015989701572014-08-28T19:21:22.925+05:302014-08-28T19:21:22.925+05:30Nice comment Bikram.You have given a very balanced...Nice comment Bikram.You have given a very balanced view of both sides.I totally agree with you on molly-coddling,yet pushing kids too hard is also cruel.Difficult to strike a balance eh?indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-77503320156001287202014-08-28T16:14:58.564+05:302014-08-28T16:14:58.564+05:30Long time back I wrote a post on the ART OF LOOSIN...Long time back I wrote a post on the ART OF LOOSING.. you are right .. in a race only one wins rest have lost .. BUT the true beauty of win is only known to those who lost .. <br /><br />and one needs to take that as a challenge and then work hard and compete with themself to make one better and then take on the world tooo .. <br /><br />although I do think that Molly coddling kids is also not a Bikramjit Singh Mannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18313466956044935335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-7867490487286509792014-08-28T06:47:38.707+05:302014-08-28T06:47:38.707+05:30Anita i have read the post--it is great--thanks.Ic...Anita i have read the post--it is great--thanks.Icould not comment as the comment form was taking ages to open.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-73034390659450449892014-08-28T06:37:38.778+05:302014-08-28T06:37:38.778+05:30Anita thanks for coming over ,i would like to read...Anita thanks for coming over ,i would like to read his views.<br />Lots of love.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-60308494737352872572014-08-27T21:24:18.402+05:302014-08-27T21:24:18.402+05:30Agree with your words, Induji.
I believe- We shoul...Agree with your words, Induji.<br />I believe- We should compete with ourselves & try to be better than we were yesterday...<br />Comparision & Competition do a lot of harm. Mr. Vikram Karve has also recently written about the same...Anita Sabathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13365472694082398017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-41137149868333408732014-08-27T10:32:55.829+05:302014-08-27T10:32:55.829+05:30Very true Alka,like you say-those who dislike comp...Very true Alka,like you say-those who dislike competition should be left in peace.Btw both i and my son also fall in the same category.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-28127765811516974942014-08-27T10:20:22.704+05:302014-08-27T10:20:22.704+05:30True, after all how many toppers can there be. One...True, after all how many toppers can there be. One should strive for excellence but it should largely be a matter of choice. Some kids are ambitious but some inherently at peace. I am not competitive by nature. I am happy in my zone and so is my son. But the same rule need not apply to others. The right balance is the key, I guess. You can't have it all.Alka Gurhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12050387590729571321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-86929101749454970162014-08-27T07:02:26.210+05:302014-08-27T07:02:26.210+05:30Very well said LL.Very well said LL.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-19174819269339029202014-08-27T07:01:54.146+05:302014-08-27T07:01:54.146+05:30It is good but it should not turn into an all-cons...It is good but it should not turn into an all-consuming passion.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-79464184955871730492014-08-27T04:31:55.921+05:302014-08-27T04:31:55.921+05:30I agree. Kids just need to be kids. With time, the...I agree. Kids just need to be kids. With time, they will figure their own life out. Parents should be there to guid and encourage but not push to hard. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10304701332216772385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-49069125255113539992014-08-26T19:24:02.423+05:302014-08-26T19:24:02.423+05:30Compitition is the essence....In fact that keeps u...Compitition is the essence....In fact that keeps us going.Imagine a scene where we would get positions without competing .<br />Personally,I am very fond of Bourbita ad where mother runs with the child giving him encouragement in compitition.BK Chowla,https://www.blogger.com/profile/03869011550287421537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-34549764261622962382014-08-26T17:51:31.839+05:302014-08-26T17:51:31.839+05:30Hi Renu,i am so glad you liked this post.Somehow i...Hi Renu,i am so glad you liked this post.Somehow i have the feeling that our thoughts on many issues are similar.Thanks for sharing your views.<br />But Renu i don't like this ad for Bournvita.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-58281916426443879682014-08-26T17:48:38.686+05:302014-08-26T17:48:38.686+05:30Rahul thanks for reading n commenting.Rahul thanks for reading n commenting.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-75903079897146572322014-08-26T17:24:30.124+05:302014-08-26T17:24:30.124+05:30A post after my heart..I always believed in hard w...A post after my heart..I always believed in hard work and efforts onlly..then whatevr the result be happy...a class can have only one topper but that doesnt mean rest are not good enough...<br />Happiness is derived from satisfaction and hard work and healthy competition not by reaching the top only..BTW I love that ad from Bournvita..Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-89762844052699639032014-08-26T12:32:42.970+05:302014-08-26T12:32:42.970+05:30Unfortunately in India there are few good opportun...Unfortunately in India there are few good opportunities for the vast population so the competition gets stiffer! Every one scrambles to be in the rat race! In rest of the world the scenario is not so scary!Rahul Bhatiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09690287853990880735noreply@blogger.com