tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post5377871113441876659..comments2024-03-24T10:31:21.513+05:30Comments on JEETE RAHO: Are You a #People Pleaser ?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger39125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-71482700643470977232016-01-24T17:06:02.856+05:302016-01-24T17:06:02.856+05:30Thank you Raj.Coming from you,it means a lot.
I s...Thank you Raj.Coming from you,it means a lot.<br /><br />I still remember your detective fiction and the lovely,live,characterization.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-42477849008722577082016-01-24T05:20:24.304+05:302016-01-24T05:20:24.304+05:30A lovely and very thoughtful post as always. I mys...A lovely and very thoughtful post as always. I myself have gone through this phase at one point in life where I was trying a little more than usual or necessary to impress others. I agree it does give you some sort of a stress and heart ache which is absolutely unnecessary. <br /><br />Loved the way you described it in such detail and so effectively. And those tips... very practical and effectiveRajhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01138309630324239186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-39464397873549332702016-01-23T18:35:09.724+05:302016-01-23T18:35:09.724+05:30A valuable addition as usual Alok :)A valuable addition as usual Alok :)indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-16740582685417763282016-01-23T08:59:31.307+05:302016-01-23T08:59:31.307+05:30Very good insights, being yourself is very importa...Very good insights, being yourself is very important if you have to move up in life. At least try to strike a balance first and then go from there.Alok singhalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13464535666153172726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-10867589198619832542015-11-06T21:09:43.263+05:302015-11-06T21:09:43.263+05:30Thank you SriKri.
Cheers.Thank you SriKri.<br />Cheers.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-23494301045422266642015-11-06T20:46:38.474+05:302015-11-06T20:46:38.474+05:30Thanks for the detailed analysis.Well explained.
C...Thanks for the detailed analysis.Well explained.<br />Cheers,<br />Sriram & Krithiga Sri Krihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05205092709001645558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-22454495131621059362013-01-24T08:26:30.131+05:302013-01-24T08:26:30.131+05:30Pattu thanks a lot--you have put down succintly,wh...Pattu thanks a lot--you have put down succintly,what i wanted to say.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-44271998864381878662013-01-23T22:24:16.419+05:302013-01-23T22:24:16.419+05:30Beautifully described. People pleasers are not alw...Beautifully described. People pleasers are not always comfortable I feel.The stress of being good to all, takes its toll. Vetirmagalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01881952063893739315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-19206544242590201542013-01-23T07:49:18.436+05:302013-01-23T07:49:18.436+05:30Thanks for your input deb.Thanks for your input deb.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-54104462351881431132013-01-23T06:19:47.066+05:302013-01-23T06:19:47.066+05:30i am a people pleaser but not because i am scared ...i am a people pleaser but not because i am scared to lose friends or anything for that matter. as long as i like someone, i don't want to hurt that person but the moment i realize that i am being manipulated or there is something not right about that person, i simply avoid him/her. from then on it's all NO for that person. liked the detailed analysis :)debajyotihttp://factsandnonsense.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-41545330518990950002013-01-22T19:22:35.160+05:302013-01-22T19:22:35.160+05:30Hi Indu,
Very good post with corrective steps too...Hi Indu,<br /><br />Very good post with corrective steps too. This will prove to be good for the youth of today, who are absolutely clueless about their lives.<br /><br />Quite true, the actual ramifications of this attitude can actually be seen in the professional workspace. A people pleaser will actually end up taking more amount of work from different people and end up totally exhausted at theprovoqdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00629557333176692247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-43410533229653029192013-01-22T18:10:36.814+05:302013-01-22T18:10:36.814+05:30Yes Zephyr being nice is NICE --it is the motive t...Yes Zephyr being nice is NICE --it is the motive that makes it an asset or a liability.<br />A super blogger like you liking a post--it means a lot to me!<br />Thanks a ton!indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-52140383172424230282013-01-22T18:03:14.733+05:302013-01-22T18:03:14.733+05:30Being nice to people need not be a negative thing,...Being nice to people need not be a negative thing, though as you have pointed out, it can be taken advantage of and misused. But learning to say no is very important too. Trying to learn and get there. Great article with practical tips. quintessentially Indu :)Zephyrhttp://cybernag.innoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-19540931425772261482013-01-22T15:22:05.420+05:302013-01-22T15:22:05.420+05:30Panchali you radiate happiness,you are not a sham....Panchali you radiate happiness,you are not a sham...please remain what you are!<br /><br />By PP i mean a person who goes out of his way to praise others even when he is not convinced of their worth;so that they may like him.There is an element of falsehood involved.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-75768166674161546032013-01-22T15:15:02.840+05:302013-01-22T15:15:02.840+05:30Debopam i am happy you liked it.Debopam i am happy you liked it.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-9715022980625931612013-01-22T15:14:26.934+05:302013-01-22T15:14:26.934+05:30Yes i have seen this,your personality reaches out ...Yes i have seen this,your personality reaches out across your posts & such a high achiever needs no artificial support.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-8541250896091897982013-01-22T15:12:47.843+05:302013-01-22T15:12:47.843+05:30So true--if we are not comfortable with who we are...So true--if we are not comfortable with who we are no amount of outside validation can cheer us.<br />Arti thanks for this.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-68375574505517419302013-01-22T15:10:14.992+05:302013-01-22T15:10:14.992+05:30Oh yes it did!Oh yes it did!indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-6807572750843648202013-01-22T15:09:49.704+05:302013-01-22T15:09:49.704+05:30Deepak you are right,we ought to maintain that bal...Deepak you are right,we ought to maintain that balance between being honestly genial & dishonestly pleasing.<br />Thanks for your supportindu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-35333536272958322052013-01-22T11:14:39.834+05:302013-01-22T11:14:39.834+05:30Indu..I'm intimately aware of this struggle. W...Indu..I'm intimately aware of this struggle. Wanting to make people happy is not an intrinsically negative quality, I think. The trick is to maintain appropriate balance and keep a check on the boundaries...<br /><br />For me, it's hard to imagine being different.:((((<br />But loved reading an article taking a strong stand. Let me see...if I can make myself a bit more strong!:))<br />A Panchalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08832164041967778122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-22526358829647352962013-01-22T10:47:59.955+05:302013-01-22T10:47:59.955+05:30Thanks for such a nice and relevant post.....
htt...Thanks for such a nice and relevant post.....<br /><br />http://debnature.blogspot.inDebopamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04967509738595098541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-62071384526209263602013-01-22T09:42:41.110+05:302013-01-22T09:42:41.110+05:30I try to put my dissent across in a decent, firm m...I try to put my dissent across in a decent, firm manner never with the intention to pull down someone. People pleaser and me -- not really.Rachnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02275266551382931603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-41027889201720757702013-01-22T09:42:30.421+05:302013-01-22T09:42:30.421+05:30How true and this post coming at a time and age wh...How true and this post coming at a time and age when things and happenings around us are making it easier to lose our originality and individuality make it all the more significant. We need to learn to love and appreciate ourselves the way we are, only therein lies the real happiness for ourselves and for others too.Artihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14606566484548310912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-82602395875441699152013-01-22T08:48:43.728+05:302013-01-22T08:48:43.728+05:30I guess my comment has reached you and not lost..I guess my comment has reached you and not lost..Deepak Kripalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11427901879844057618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3357500251976754595.post-91603990246656799662013-01-22T08:47:53.777+05:302013-01-22T08:47:53.777+05:30Hello Indu.. You have once again come up with a us...Hello Indu.. You have once again come up with a useful and relevant post. I could agree with you more here.. There is a fine and delicate balance between pleasing others and self growth or individuality.. You stop living when you stop living for yourself.. <br /><br />Thanks for giving us this insightful and meaningful post..<br /> I look for more..Deepak Kripalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11427901879844057618noreply@blogger.com